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5 Commitments to Make in Your Relationship

By: Chelle

Many people associated commitment in regards to marriage and relationships to mean “I will not cheat on my partner” or “I will only be in a relationship with my partner.” To make a relationship healthy and successful, committing to more than just the aspect of fidelity can make your relationship much stronger.

There are 5 things that all relationships need to thrive and grow, and in order for these things to strengthen your relationship you must realize when getting married, you are committing to more than just a lifetime of living with each other. By making the 5 commitments below, you can dramatically increase your happiness in a relationship.

Here are 5 Commitments You Can Make to Strengthen Your Relationship:

1. I Commit to Respect My Partner: Respect is an often overlooked but very important characteristic to have in a healthy marriage. Respect means listening to your partner, being supportive of your partner, and to show appreciation. The more you respect your partner, the more respect you will earn back, and the better you will be at making the relationship work.

2. I Commit to Being Honest: Honesty is required in a healthy relationship. Without honesty, you cannot have trust between the two partners. Honesty is telling the truth in any circumstance, even if the truth is not what the other partner wants to hear. Being able to have honesty and being able to communicate honesty with respect to your partner can also make your relationship a lasting one.

3. I Commit to Putting My Partner’s Needs Ahead of My Own: Many times it is easy for us to only think of ourselves – our wants, our needs. But when we put our partner’s needs ahead of our own, we can successfully stop dwelling on the negative inadequacies of ourselves and focus on helping our partner in a positive manner. When both partners put each other’s needs ahead of their own, they are both able to give and receive equally in the relationship.

4. I Commit to Learn How to Communicate Effectively With My Partner: Communicating effectively is key in order to make relationships last between two people. Communicating effectively does not mean just saying whatever is on your mind, but saying it in a way your partner will understand. It’s important to remember that listening is also a big part of communication.

5. I Commit To Resolve Problems: Every relationship, even healthy ones, will have challenges to overcome. Sometimes these challenges can be overwhelming, and often we may ignore them. Other times, the challenges can be enough to end a relationship when both parties feel that they cannot be fixed. When both partners agree to commit to resolve problems, it gives them the strength to work out solutions that can help keep their relationship thriving.

If both partners in a relationship make these 5 commitments, they are much more likely to have a relationship that thrives and grows. These 5 commitments can help both women and men build a strong relationship that can withstand, as well as potentially avoid, the challenges that often threaten commitment in a relationship.

Many people often associate commitment meaning only to remain faithful to one another in a relationship. When you add the 5 commitments discussed in this article, you can find your relationship is not only stronger, but happier as well.

Chelle writes about love and relationships on her website. To learn more about commitment, visit her article on Why Are Men Scared of Commitment

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