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Body Language Signs of Attraction

By: PetaFletcher

Sometimes reading guys can be quite hard. Even in this day and age, men try to hide their feelings, so they wont appear "soft" in front of their friends. They worry that showing emotions will make them appear weak, so many men will do their best to mask their feelings.

Luckily, the untrained mind cannot consciously control all body language signals. As long as the guy hasn't been studying body language, it's unlikely he will know what signals he is giving off.

This means that if you know what to look for, you'll be able to read guys like a book, no matter how hard they try and hide their feelings!

1. The first sign to look for is a warm or tentative smile.

Not all smiles are created the same though!

If the shape of his smile is oblong then the smile is not genuine. To check for this, look at the smile from the front of the face. If you can see the upper and lower teeth, the lips are held back, and the shape formed by the lips is an oblong, then the smile is artificial- and the guy should not be trusted.

2. Another important sign that a man is attracted to you is if he looks you in the eye. Sustained eye contact is a good sign that a guy is interested in you- particularly if he smiles at the same time.

One thing to look for- is when he has quick darting looks into your eyes, and then he quickly looks elsewhere. This is usually a sign that the man is attracted to you, but very nervous. Don't be surprised if he doesn't actually approach you. This doesn't mean he isn't interested though, and you may have to make the first move.

3. Body Facing Towards You.

Another sign of attraction is when a guy angles his body, so that he is facing towards you. This subconscious body language shows that he finds you attractive, and wants to check you out whenever he can!

4. Preening.
Both guys and girls will "preen" themselves, whenever they want to impress someone of the opposite sex. Guys often show this by running their fingers through their hair, or adjusting their clothing. If he's looking towards you while doing this, then it's a good sign he is attracted to you.

5. Standing tall, flexing muscles, and sucking in of the stomach. When men are attracted to someone, they subconsciously try and appear more masculine, and do this by showing how tall, strong, and thin they
are.

As you can see, none of these body-language signs of attraction are particularly hard to see, but they are a very effective gauge to see if a guy is interested in your or not.

Sometimes reading guys can be quite hard. Even in this day and age, men try to hide their feelings, so they wont appear "soft" in front of their friends. They worry that showing emotions will make them appear weak, so many men will do their best to mask their feelings...

Peta Fletcher's book, "The Secret Body Language Guide For Women", has a lot more information on body language, including flirting, winning arguments with men, knowing when people are lying to you, and more... http://www.easybodylanguage.com

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