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Controlling Your Baby Shower Budget

By: Donald Saunders

Until recently baby showers were relatively small affairs involving just family and close friends but today they can be elaborate special occasions complete with professional entertainers and photographers. This means that, amongst other things, if you do not watch the bottom line your costs can run out of control very quickly. So, you need to watch your budget!

Traditionally the cost of a baby shower is borne by the host and the shower itself is considered to be the host's gift to the mother-to-be. Nowadays however this can be a very expensive gift and so you need to draw up a budget the moment you start your planning.

Nobody likes having to operate to a budget but if you do not then you can very quickly end up regretting your decision to hold the shower in the first place and then find yourself cutting corners at the last minute and spoiling what started out as a very good plan.

Remember too that the main purpose of a baby shower is for friends and family to get together to celebrate the birth of a new baby and to have fun doing so. In particular, it is important that the mother-to-be is the center of attention and thoroughly enjoys herself. This can be achieved without spending a fortune and at each step along the way, as you add something into your plan, simply ask yourself whether it will significantly add to the enjoyment of those present or is something which will probably not even be noticed amongst everything else and can be left out.

Another excellent idea today is to co-host a baby shower. There is no reason why just one person should host a baby shower and it is perfectly acceptable for two friends to get together and jointly host the shower. Indeed, there is no reason why this should not be extended to a group of three, four or even more co-hosts.

With two or more hosts you can either divide up the work and costs, with each host being responsible for a different aspect of the party such as decorations, food, drink and games, or with the hosts simply sharing the cost by deciding on an overall budget and then each putting their share into the baby shower 'pot'.

If you are going to host a baby shower and are looking for other people to share the cost then you will need to handle this with some tact. Never for example ask the mother-to-be or her partner to contribute towards the cost and be mindful of other guests who may be struggling financially. If you plan far enough in advance and spread the idea of having a baby shower carefully you will probably find that those close to the expectant mother will volunteer their services and many will offer to help out with the cost.

Do not forget too that there are many ways in which people can help without directly involving money. There may for example be people who are happy to make decorations for the party, or to organize games. Others may volunteer to cook food and bring it along with them, or to supply drinks. Many of the guests will have skills and talents which they can bring to bear and the more people who pitch in the lower the cost will generally be.

The secret, however you decide to plan a baby shower, is to decide how much you can afford to spend before you start and then to plan your party within that budget.

Baby showers have evolved into quite elaborate affairs in many cases today and this means that the cost of hosting a baby shower can be high. Against this background we look at the importance of setting yourself a baby shower budget and sticking to it.

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