How self confidence affects breakups

How can self confidence be connected to breakups?
First of all I am sure that you have been through a breakup before and that you had hard time trying to get over it, right?

Do you know that the more confident you become the faster you will recover from breakups?

Here is why:

Right after a breakup people don’t feel bad for a reason or two but they feel bad because of many reasons that are combined together. A typical person could feel bad right after a breakup because

1) He used to love the person he broke up with
2) His EGO hurts him
3) He feels lonely
4) He is not sure why he was dumped
5) Because of thinking that there is something wrong about him
6) Because the relationship allowed him to escape bad moods
7) Because the relationship made him feel worthy

JUST A SECOND!!

Didn’t you notice that most of the reasons (the ones in bold) are related to self confidence? Not being sure about yourself, depending on a relationship to feel worthy and thinking that there is something wrong with you are all reasons that are directly connected to low self confidence.

Most people feel bad after breakups because of low self confidence in addition to other reasons. That’s why I told you in the beginning of the lesson that confident people recover faster from breakups.

How to prevent a breakup from affecting your self confidence?
Now that you knew how breakups can affect self confidence here is how to cancel this affect:

1)Never depend on someone to feel worthy because as soon as you lose that person you will feel worthless

2)Never go for a relationship just because someone praises you, makes you feel important and elevates your self confidence. If you went for such a relation then know that you don’t love the person but you just love to feel important because you are not sure of yourself

3)If it happened that you broke up then analyze the real reasons behind the breakup and you will find that getting over the breakup became much easier

4)Don’t live your life unsure of yourself because the first event that happens that will remind you of this fact will make you feel bad. Know your points of strength very well along with your weaknesses so that you don’t question your importance when you lose someone or something.

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