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Nudges From Life

By: Susie Heath

You know those times when things have gone wrong in your life, when your boss started to criticise you or your relationship wasn’t so good? More often than not, this is your life saying to you, “Are you on the right track? Are you being all you can be? Are you doing what makes your heart sing? Are you thinking the thoughts that you love? Are you with the people you love and who truly love you? Are you fulfilling your heart’s desire? Are you doing what you’re here to do? Are you connecting with your true essence?” The question is, “Do you hear the message?”

This is Life nudging you to set you on the road you are supposed to be travelling, which may be to improve your relationship, find work that excites and enthrals you, to exercise before you get sick or rest before you collapse.

Often we fail to notice when we can change things at an early stage while they are still easily manageable. We wait until things become desperate before we’re willing to do something about them, existing on a roller-coaster of drama which feels exciting and exhilarating at the time because the intense contrast reminds us we are alive, like
hitting your head against a brick wall and finding the intense relief when you stop.

Life whispers at first to us, and when we fail to listen, it gets louder and louder until it’s shouting at us. But if we still fail to notice, then sometimes it gives us a very painful and nasty shock indeed before we wake up. This may be the death of someone we love, the diagnosis of a disease or an accident, the end of a relationship or the loss of a job
– anything to make us wake up enough to realise that what we are doing is not working, that we have to change the way we are thinking, the way we’re behaving, the way we are living.

We have been so busy as ‘human doings,’ that we have forgotten how to connect with our beingness – that place deep within us which organises our every move, our behaviour and our choices. So in order to achieve our outcome here, to reveal the true feminine essence within us and to live our lives with that as our foundation, we need to
take a good long hard look at our preconceived ideas about life, and at what is holding us back from achieving what it is we truly want. If we were living true to ourselves in our feminine energy, we would already have what we desire and a peaceful world to go with it. © Susie Heath

You know those times when things have gone wrong in your life, when your boss started to criticise you or your relationship wasn’t so good? More often than not, this is your life saying to you, “Are you on the right track? Are you being all you can be? Are you doing what makes your heart sing? Are you thinking the thoughts that you love?

Susie Heath is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach, Executive and Business Coach and Consultant, Corporate Behavioral and Cognitive Psychotherapist and workshop facilitator, with significant experience in motivating and implementing change successfully. She is the Author of "The Essence of Womanhood - re-awakening the authentic feminine," and co-author of “Written in the Rainbow – a Woman’s Secret to Self-Esteem. http://www.essenceofwomanhood.com and http://www.susieheath.com The above article is an extract from the book "The Essence of Womanhood - re-awakening the authentic feminine" and is copyrighted by Susie Heath.

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