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Testing Your Life Partner? 10 Reasons Why You Should (Or Should Not) Ask To Test Your Spouse

By: Zeynep Ilgaz

Testing of any sort can strain a relationship. It brings up many trust issues and could potentially open a can of worms that you’re not prepared to deal with. However, testing can also be a life saver and open your eyes to truths about your partner that may have otherwise been kept hidden. Here are some compelling reasons to incorporate testing into your life:

It Can Be Life Saving

Depending on the type of drug test you want your partner to take, it may very well be life saving. A drug test can catch a problem before it accelerates. An HIV test can help them get the treatment they need and help prevent you from contracting it. You get the idea.

It Isn’t Expensive

Most drug tests that you can use at home are not very expensive and are easy to obtain. One of the best reasons to ask your partner to undergo certain tests is because it is so easy to do so. Why risk it?

It Can Make You Closer

If your partner goes along very willingly with the whole drug testing process and if you undergo testing as well, it can really make you closer as a couple. Knowing you are both healthy is important and addressing issues at their onset is also important.

It Adds a Layer of Comfort

It is helpful and comforting to know how your partner is doing. This applies to general health concerns and to drug use. If you plan on spending your life with this person, it is vital to be comfortable with one another and that’s what testing can provide.

It Can Get You Out of Unhealthy Territory

Taking a simple drug test can help you detect problems early so you can seek treatment. The key to a long and happy life is early detection of diseases and prevention. Tests like kidney tests, hepatitis tests and even drug tests can help your partner and you address any issues that may be present before they become bigger problems.

It Shows You Think Ahead

Let’s say you want to have kids with this person some day. It is important to plan ahead in this regard. If there is some disease or condition that would prevent you from having children safely, it needs to be found out now.

It’s Considerate

Undergoing testing in a relationship is just plain considerate. It shows that you are both committed and willing to lay it all on the line for one another.

It Reveals People’s True Nature

If your partner gets very upset about the prospect of having a test done or flat out refuses without even discussing it, you have grounds for suspicion. If you are going to be in a relationship with this person for life, you deserve full disclosure.

It’s Responsible

Agreeing to testing of any sort is responsible and the adult thing to do. When in a relationship with someone, your livelihood is dependent on each other—meaning the health of the other person is vitally important.

It Shows You Care

Who would ask someone to go through a test if they didn’t care about them? Asking your spouse to undergo testing of any sort shows you have a genuine concern for this person. They shouldn’t be offended.

Testing of any sort can strain a relationship. It brings up many trust issues and could potentially open a can of worms that you’re not prepared to deal with. However, testing can also be a life saver and open your eyes to truths about your partner that may have otherwise been kept hidden.

This article is written by Zeynep Ilgaz, CEO of Hair Confirm Drug Tests. A longer version of this article can be found along with other hair drug testing and hair drug test kit information at Hair Drug Testing Your Spouse and Hair Confirm Drug Tests. You can also read some more about hair drug tests in the frequently asked questions sections on Hair Drug Test - FDA Approved?.

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