.

Articles in Home | Self help | Anger management

  • The Many Faces Of Anger  By :
    Having over thirty years experience as a psychotherapist, I have seen anger expressed in many of its forms, by omission and commission. Usually we have a way of expressing anger that is our signature, that is a way of being angry that we resort to over and over again, when we are in conflict. Habits have power because usually, we are unaware and we react unconsciously or automatically. Think for instance of where you place your tooth-brush. Every morning you reach in the same...
  • Effects of anger  By : Arjun Singhe
    Though anger s a natural feeling experienced by all human, the effects are always unpleasant. You may think that you are expressing anger in normal ways and it will not affect the people around you. But if you ask your spouse, friend, children or colleague about the effects of your anger, you will be surprised to learn how they feel for your anger. Any anger either expressed harshly or politely has its effects.
  • Anger Self Test  By : Arjun Singhe
    Anger is an emotion which is experienced by everybody. It is not abnormal to be angry. Anger is healthy until it is expressed controllably. When it is uncontrollable it may disturb the relationship with family and colleagues. It has adverse effects on our life quality. Anger can be expressed assertively to get positive response and better situation.
  • Anger management Quiz  By : Arjun Singhe
    Managing anger is an art in itself. Expressing anger in the right way which does not hurt anybody is a skill. For that skill to develop we need to learn to manage our behavior. In worst cases you may take an expert’s help. There are questionnaires available on anger management which you may use from time to time to test your tolerance levels.
  • Anger Management in Children  By : Arjun Singhe
    Anger is a natural emotion. It may be seen as annoyance and a physical assault. Children learn how to express anger by the examples that we give them. They learn from our verbal statements and behavior.
  • Anger Management Courses  By : Arjun Singhe
    Anger is a powerful feeling, which may lead to some disturbing situation if it is not expressed in controlled manner. It is very tactful to balance between expressing your feelings and not to harm anybody. Before talking anything you should think twice about its consequences. Anger management is necessary for everyone to keep good relations with family members and with the people at workplace.
  • Anger Management Activities  By : Arjun Singhe
    Anger is pain against some unexpected and unwanted events. Anger may result in physical action or shouting loudly. Everyone gets angry. Some people will react very quickly to the perceived pain. Some may not. May be some lose their coolness and hit the roof.
  • Anger Disorder  By : Arjun Singhe
    New studies show that more people are affected by explosive outbursts of uncontrollable rage than previous. More than 7% of people in the US are experiencing this anger disorder known as "intermittent explosive disorder". It means they respond to certain situations with anger in appropriately at some time in their life.
  • Inside The Mind Of An Angry Man.  By :
    Do you live with an angry man? Ever wondered what on earth is going on in his head? One of the commonest causes of anger is distorted thinking patterns. Men with anger problems have some typical patterns of thinking.

    These thinking distortions increase feelings of anger and learning to recognize and change them is a critical part of an effective anger management class. Take a look inside the mind of an angry man and you might see these 5 thinking patterns:

    1. "You can't...
  • Anger Management Class 101: 5 Tips For The Frustrated!  By :
    Many people who have an anger problem feel frustrated a lot of the time. Often the feeling occurs in the build up to an anger outburst. Frustration occurs when you are prevented from getting something you want.

    The feeling of frustration will be strongest when you cannot see another alternative way to get the outcome you want. This is complicated by the facts that as your anger increases you are less able to clearly think about other options to solve your problem.

    Copin...
  • The Damaging Effects Of Chronic Anger Outbursts  By :
    It seems as if anger is getting worse in our society. Road rage is on the increase, and violent behaviour and workplace harassment are becoming more common. Some people complain of chronic anger, where they just feel irritated and miserable most of the time.

    If anger control is a problem for you then it may also be affecting your health and wellbeing. These are common problems for the chronically angry.

    1. Anger is associated with increased blood pressure, heart disease...
  • Anger vs Moral Outrage  By : Kate Loving Shenk
    Anger is an afflictive emotion. Moral outrage is a higher vibrational frequency. This article explains the difference between the two emotions.
  • Steps To Breaking The Addiction To Anger  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    It is not difficult to break the addiction to anger when we understand its causes and take correct steps. Article offers information and specific guidelines and ridding oneself of this dangerous toxin which destroys our lives.
  • Why We Choose Anger (And How To Take Another Road)  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Anger had turned into an epidemic these days. Few realize that anger is a choice we make and that it is fairly easy to take another road. This article explores the reasons why we choose anger, the consequences that choice has, and offers specific guidance on how to make a different choice.
  • Anger Can Be Positive  By : Dr. Lyle Becourtney, Licensed Psychologist & Certified Anger Management Professional
    Although uncontrolled anger can be quite costly, when channeled properly anger can also be very positive. Among other things, anger can motivate us to work harder to accomplish our goals. This could mean playing harder on the defensive end in a basketball game, studying longer for an exam, or putting in more time when learning to play an instrument.
  • An Effective Anger Management Technique  By : Dr. Lyle Becourtney, Licensed Psychologist & Certified Anger Management Professional
    One of the most effective ways of using assertive communication is by using a technique known as the Compliment Sandwich. In order to minimize the other person's defensiveness, you would begin with a compliment (the first piece of bread), then present your complaint or criticism (the meat), and then finish with another compliment (the second piece of bread). When used appropriately, the Compliment Sandwich can be very helpful in managing your anger.
  • Anger + ADHD = an H-Bomb: 6 Steps Plus a Bonus to Manage Anger with ADHD  By : Wanda
    Anger is a paradox. We all, except for saints, feel anger or think angry thoughts some of the time. Anger is a reaction to a perceived injustice or injury; it feels manly and justified. It is so much more satisfying to retaliate than to turn the proverbial other cheek.

    If Attention Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (AD/HD) is also present, the combination becomes doubly toxic. Anger is not specifically part of ADHD, but many ADHD traits contribute to trigger a rage event.
  • Why Anger Arises In The Family: And How To Let It Go  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Anger in the family is one of main causes of difficult relationships and troubles of all kinds. It is extremely important to understand why this arises, how it manifests and what to do to stop it. This article explores anger in the family, offering many insights into its origin and suggestions about letting it go.
  • Seven Ways to Manage Anger  By : Anthony Kane MD
    Anger can destroy your relationships with just about everybody. Here are seven easy to use techniques that you can learn and teach to your child that will help you get anger out of your home.
  • Self Help Methods Are Available To Take The Anger Out Of Your System  By :
    It is not always easy for someone to control his or her anger, and the problem can often become serious enough to warrant looking about for an effective self help means to rectify the problem before it becomes more serious than it deserves to be. The number of people having anger management problems is many and if it were not for the fact that there are a number of different self help anger management techniques available, the problem would indeed have become a much more seri...
  • Handling Others' Anger Effectively  By : Emily Bouchard
    A grateful heart can help you achieve fulfillment for each member of your blended family.
  • Anger  By : Larry Lloyd
    Violence is a choice that stems from feelings of anger and resistance.
  • Learn To Control Your Anger  By : Victor Epand
    This article talks about anger and how some might not show that they are mad and how some are not scared to show it. This article tells you how some people shout things at you only to hurt him/her.
  • How To Break The Addiction To Anger  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Addiction to anger is one of the most common and lethal forms of addiction around. It is so common that many do not realize they're in the grip of it. This article explores the nature of addiction, shows how it affects our lives and why it grows. It also offers specific exercises to loosen the grip of the addiction and break free.
  • Anger Management, The Best Way Is Not Always The Hard Way  By : Mark Goodworthy
    Unlike other emotions, anger can cause negative effects on our health. When you get angry, your body displays physiological changes like sweating, increased heart beats and even increased temperature. If your body is not in good physical condition, anger could probably strain your heart and increase your blood pressure. Of course, everybody knows that people with heart conditions should avoid getting angry.

    Learning how to control your anger is very difficult. It would tak...
  • Managing and Dealing with an Aggressive Boss  By : Joshua Uebergang
    People who receive aggressive behavior that is not correctly handled have been known to develop serious physical problems such as strokes, heart attacks, suicide, migraines, escalated stress levels, insomnia, and terrifying nightmares. You need to stick up for yourself in an assertive manner otherwise your mental and physical wellbeing will suffer.
  • Coping With Anger In An Effective Manner  By : Terry Doherty
    Anger can express itself in a variety of forms. Some people express anger in an overwhelming fashion; they shout, curse, and can cross the boundary to physical expressions. Others keep their anger pent up, but express it in forms of passive aggression, sulking, bad moods and eventually even bad health..

    Anger management does not focus on completely getting rid of the emotion anger. That would be impossible. Instead working on anger management can help you to guide your rea...
  • 7 Anger Management "Cool as Cucumber" Techniques to Live by  By : Christine Gray
    Seven anger management techniques you can do to make sure anger will not take control of you. Applying these anger management tips will help you to be "cool as a cucumber", very calm, and relaxed even in difficult situations.
  • Free anger management - The techniques of counselling revealed  By : Albert Foong
    Much of the work done in paid anger management sessions can be replicated alone - all you need is to know what to do. This free article will reveal the techniques that they use.
  • The best Anger management resources for mental health  By : Albert Foong
    Anger doesn't just affect mental health - if can hurt you physically, socially, financially, everything. What are some of the best resources out there on anger management? This article gives some great tips and also lists out all the most effective resources available.
  • Anger Management Help - Make it stop!  By : Albert Foong
    Anger management can be confusing. There are so many different methods, not all of them effective. This free article will clear things up and lay out the most effective methods simply.
  • Highly Effective Anger Management for Teens  By : Albert Foong
    Teenagers face unique and challenging problems - anger management is one of the best ways to overcome these problems.
  • The most effective Anger Management Activities  By : Albert Foong
    The world of Anger Management can get confusing, with the different types of anger and the different methods. This article will clear it up and lay out the most effective activities.
  • 6 Steps To Releasing Anger And Feeling Good Again  By : Brenda Shoshanna -
    Anger is a lethal force that undermines our lives in all kinds of ways. Sometimes it erupts openly and other times it camouflages itself and covertly undermines your life. Some experience anger as strength and power. They feel it is necessary in order to maintain control. Others assume they have the right to express anger. These are some of the lies anger tells us.

    In fact, when we are angry we are out of control and our ability to respond wisely is diminished. It’s time t...
  • It might kill you otherwise: Anger Release  By : Albert Foong
    Do you like being not in control of yourself? Anger can kill you. It is the biggest obstacles to happiness – or to master yourself. Pent-up energies have to be released. This article gives practical information on how.
  • Addressing Anger Management For Kids In Creative Ways  By : Nathalie Lafleur
    It can be easy to loose your patience when dealing with an especially unruly or angry child, but in doing so you are really just reinforcing the child's angry behavior. You can use some fun ways to get the child to see the excessive nature of their own anger, instead of reacting with anger

    Although in especially heated situations this may be a struggle, the faster you can get the child to release their anger, the quicker you can diffuse the situation and have an efficie...
  • Personal Development & Happiness Tools: Anger Release  By : Albert Foong
    In personal development, and in life, one of the main goals is to achieve happiness. What often stand in the way are “negative” emotions such as anger or sadness, and any personal development quest requires you to deal with this. This series of articles gives some innovative and practical information on how.
  • De-Escalation Techniques: How To Take The Wind Out Of Their Sails  By : Kim Olver
    Have you ever been involved in a situation with an angry person when you felt defeated? Either you escalated to their level of aggression or you allowed yourself to get lambasted and felt battered in the end? There are some easy techniques to work with an angry person to take their level of volatility down to a manageable level so you can intellectually process the problem with them.

    Attempting to reason with those who use anger to intimidate, control, get attention, avoid...
  • Anger Management: How To Stay Calm Instead Of Losing Your Cool  By : Kim Olver
    Have you ever found yourself angry with people you care about and didn’t seem able to stop yourself? Do people who love you tell you that you have anger management issues? Have you lost some important relationships or created problems for yourself at work because you couldn’t seem to control your angry behavior?

    If this describes you, then you need to regain control and stop yourself from hurting others. The first thing to do is to recognize that you are choosing your ange...
  • Golf Course Anger Management 101  By : Craig Sigl
    How many times on the golf course has anger ruined your round? You know how it happens, one shot into the woods or missed putt during a crucial time and it starts a chain reaction of playing poorly. You just can't seem to escape it as you spiral out of control. You've go to find a mental pattern interrupt. Here's how:
  • Is Being Angry Ever Good?  By : Connie Limon -
    Some psychologists who study anger say anger does have a positive side. For example:

    • Anger helps clarify relationship problems;
    • Anger helps finalize business deals;
    • Anger fuels political agendas;
    • Anger can give people a sense of control during an uncertain situation;
    • Anger can cause an entire culture to change for the better as with the women’s suffrage movement.

    In certain situations anger can be defined as being constructive rather than destructive and h...
  • 5 Tips for Constructive Anger Management at The Workplace  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Anger can be a lethal force at the workplace, undermining atmosphere, productivity and workplace relaitonships. Based upon her new book, The Anger Diet, Dr. Shoshanna provides five essential steps to take to balance workplace relationships and allow you to easily turn negative feelings into constructive workplace behavior.
  • 2 Easy Ways To Manage Your Anger  By : Ricky Lim
    Anger is an emotional feeling and an expression which we all have from time to time. Each and every one of us reacts to anger differently. Some people may feel a great urgency to smash something, some people shouts at the top of their lungs to vent their anger while others will remain silent throughout the entire time.

    Anger can lead to destructive consequences. Sadly, most people do not have any form of training or instruction on how to deal with these emotions. As a resu...
  • 7 Steps For Melting Anger On The Spot  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Anger is a lethal force that undermines our lives in many ways. This article explores what anger actually is, where it comes from and how it manifests. It also offers 7 specific steps for dissolving anger easily.
  • Top Ten Ways of Moving Through Anger  By : Johanna Vanderpol
    This article is a synopsis of various elements to consider in moving through anger to completion so it doesn't stay "stuck" in the body and so it doesn't harm relationships.
  • Simple Ways To Effectively Control Anger  By : David Idle
    Strong emotions like anger can affect your physical well being. Because of anger, you may experience chest pains, upset stomach, heart palpitations, difficulty in breathing, dizziness, high blood pressure, and other health problems. Because of these, you need to find ways to effectively control your anger.

    There are ways to deal with anger and here are some of the effective ways:

    Determine the source and cause of anger. A strong emotion has to be resolved first. Unresol...
  • Releasing Anger  By : Helene Rothschild
    Learn why you feel angry and if you are dealing with this human emotion constructively. Then you can feel peaceful, enjoy better relationships, be healthier and happier, and contribute to world peace.
  • The Triggers Of Anger  By : Burt Cotton
    Triggers are what interrupts emotions and causes us to become angry. When we learn our triggers, we are taking a step in the right direction to control our emotions. First, we need to weed through the roots of anger to determine the problem. If you have obsessive anger, outbursts you might want to get a physical to eliminate chemical or physical roots of your anger.

    Next, you will go to a mental health expert to eliminate mental illnesses that are often the root of anger. ...
  • Psychotherapy Anger Management  By : Burt Cotton
    When we are angry, we often find a way to deal with the stress that anger brings. Some of us however cannot find a way to deal with our anger. A faithful strategy I used to deal with anger is to handle the situation when the opportunity arises. If someone does something to hurt me, it depends on the situation but I got resources, therefore I put those to good use.

    When I feel sometimes, I go inside my mind, find a restful area, and talk to myself. I often find humor whethe...
  • Stop Seeing Red Through Hypnotherapy For Anger Management  By : Richard MacKenzie
    Let’s begin by counting how many times you got angry today. Did you honk a tad bit extra to get people out of your way as you were late to work? Did you throw a fit because your kid wouldn’t have his glass of milk, and you wondered “Why God, why me?” Were you upset because your spouse spent the evening at work, and missed your dinner date? Little things seem to irk you beyond belief, you feel like the universe is conspiring against you. You think Murphy’s laws were written ke...

[1] [2