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  • An Efficient Way To Personal Growth  By : Community Soul
    There is a way to grow and expand and resolve issues on your mind that is simple, efficient and relatively unknown.

    This way will hardly take a moment out of your day. I can personally vouch for the fact that what tends to occur is above and beyond many ways I know for creating excellence, happiness and peace of mind.

    Let me begin by painting a picture for you.

    Imagine that there is an issue or decision that you want to resolve (you may like to actually think of one)...
  • Which Program Do You Live By, Every Day Of Your Life?  By : Emmanuel Segui -
    In the Bible, we are admonished to "Love your neighbor as yourself." I contend we generally love our neighbor far more than we do ourselves because I know very well we would not inflict on our neighbor the handicapping conduct we frequently impose on ourselves.

    For instance, let us assume you have a neighbor who is in trouble. Things are not going well at home. He is having financial difficulties, is worried about his job, and in desperation he comes to you for some advice...
  • Let’s Refire Together!  By : Cynthia Barnett
    Hello friends,

    Be sure that you read to the end of this article because there is news about the next big ReFire, Don’t Retire™ Event. It’s going to be hugely fun, and I hope you will be a part of it.

    I occasionally have people ask me why I chose “ReFire, Don’t Retire” and why I talk so much about a refired life in the second stage. The answer is really simple:

    People who are fired up about something – people who are passionate about life and living – are happier and ...
  • Three Powerful Changes To Make Now To Get More Done Each Day  By : Suzanne Bird-Harris
    With so much to do and only so many hours in a day, here are three powerful changes you can make RIGHT NOW to free up time, eliminate distractions and get more done (particularly the things that are important to you) each day.

    Close Your Email Program
    Yes, I said it. Close your email program. I know this may border on heresy for some of you, but think about it. Technology is supposed to make our lives easier, but email is one area where many of us have become slaves to, "...
  • Is Your Power on Remote Control?  By : Sandy Reed
    Tired of letting outside influences control your life? Find your power and take charge by utilitzing the Power Principle of Love.
  • Thoughts about Negative Thoughts  By : Sharon Carne
    This article is a heartfelt discussion of the author's journey of awareness through her thought processes, in particular the negative thoughts. What is this thought energy? How do our thoughts affect our lives or the lives of others? How can we shift the energy sent out by negative thoughts?
  • About Contrast – Contrast Clears Your Mind and Attracts Abundance  By : Aldian Prakoso
    Every person on Earth has a set of preferences as unique as their fingerprints; no one else has the exact same set. My preferences are right for me and yours are just right for you.
  • Life is the Gift  By : Diane Dutton
    When is now too soon to look at the life we have and make something of this gift. Let's look at the few words needed to face ourselves and create our future.
  • Alternatives to standing still  By : Mike Scantlebury
    It's common sense. Standing still takes no energy and jogging burns up calories. Wrong. Life's not like that. Every day we struggle and strain just to stay where we are, not because we like it, but because it feels familiar. We interpret that as comfortable and safe. Wrong. Changing course is almost as difficult as staying in the same rut. Try it.
  • Business As Usual And Other Facts Of Life  By : Gary Crow
    It probably comes as no surprise that merely trusting others is not the end of it. The question is not just, "Who do you trust?" It isn't, "Who trusts you?" either, since even world class scoundrels likely are trusted sometimes by someone. The question is, "Is there any good reason why anyone should trust you?" This article explores this and other principles of personal success.
  • Excerpt From The Art Of Managing: Conflict Behavior Styles  By : Jane Treber Macken
    Conflict occurs in situations in which people are interdependent, seek different outcomes, favor different methods to the same end, or perceive others are interfering with their ability for rewards or resources. A person’s behavior in conflict situations can be described by two basic dimensions—assertiveness and cooperation. Assertiveness is the extent to which the team member attempts to satisfy his own concerns. Cooperation is the team members attempt to satisfy the other p...
  • The Top 10 Ways to Overcome Procrastination  By : Jennifer Koretsky
    When a person is bored or uninterested, certain tasks and projects can seem like torture! This feeling usually leads to procrastination, and procrastination often leads to guilt. Here are some practical ways to avoid these situations and overcome procrastination:
  • Opportunities In The Guise Of Problems  By : Kate Loving Shenk
    When Ever An Unexamined Problem Occurs, It's Your To heal
  • Means to Attract Abundance – 4 Abundance Attractors You Need to Know  By : Michael Lee
    There are simple means to attract abundance; all you need to do is attract it properly. Follow the means to attract abundance and start living the life you’ve always dreamed of.
  • In Your Name  By : Karen Kay
    Likely it is not the name that led these people to success, necessarily. More likely it was the edge the name gave them. You just need to find your edge.
  • The Greatest Gift - What is It?  By : Brenda Shoshanna
    Although we give many things in relationship, often the greatest gift is not available. This greatest gift is our true selves, the real person behind the roles and games. This article describes what it is that causes us to play games, thus causing difficulties. It also offers clear understanding of how to let go of these masks we wear, and to become who we truly are.
  • Don't Let Others Control You: Think Your Way Through Critical Statements  By : Janna Chan
    Does thinking about the critical statements of others take up a lot of your time? Is so, The following creative strategies for defusing criticism's emotional impact can turn your personal and professional relationships around: Criticism Management Strategy #1- Evaluate Criticism Criticism Management Strategy #2 – Respond Objectively to Criticism Criticism Management Strategy #3 – Name Your Responses to Criticism
  • Teen Chat: 4 Steps To Have A Great Body Image  By : Christine McGogy
    Hi Teens:

    If we were to do a survey that asked how many of us feel happy with our bodies, what percentage do you think would answer, “I am happy with how my body looks?”

    Research done about body image shows that women are much more critical of their appearance than men. They are much less likely to like what they see in the mirror. Eight out of ten women will be dissatisfied with their reflection, and more than half may see a distorted image.* Young women need more self...
  • Alternatives to The Switch  By : Mike Scantlebury
    Why make a big deal out of it? If you really want to be rich, there must be a simple place to start, surely? Mike Scantlebury takes up the challenge, by giving you a simple exercise, so simple that 99 out of the hundred people who read the advice are sure as hell not going to take it. 'First make me rich' is the usual demand. No, that's not it. First do and act like you're rich is actually the best place to start. Everything else follows.
  • Discover The Law of Abundance In Nature  By : Steve Lobe
    The law of abundance is shown in many ways in nature. Whatever nature needs to prosper can be found when and where it is needed. For example: a rose plant in the wild demonstrates the law of abundance. For 5 or 6 months in a year, the rose lives and remains dormant the rest of the year in a cold climate. During the spring and summer months the rose takes advantage of the sun's warmth and soft rains and blooms on a continual basis.
  • Dear Earth  By : Helene Rothschild
    Are you aware of what is happening to our beautiful Mother Earth? Do you feel concerned about the many people and businesses that have consciously or unconsciously hurt our air, water, land, animals, vegetation, and atmosphere? The truth is that the situation is not hopeless, you are not powerless, and you can make a difference.
  • Present Reality Is Manifestation Of Past Thoughts  By : Enoch Tan
    Present results are the effects of previous thoughts. In other words, when you look at the world today, you are actually looking at yourself as you were yesterday. The world at any present moment of now, reflects your thoughts and state of being before the present moment of now. Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result. If you want things to be different, you have to think and do things differently.
  • The Road to Happiness In Relationship and Life - 8 Easy Steps  By : Cucan Pemo
    Finding happiness is not always easy. It is something that we have to do for ourselves in order to have the life that we want and need. Learn these 8 easy steps to start experiencing a happy relationship and discover what it takes to live a fulfilling life today.
  • Creativity and the Excitement of Life  By : Helene Rothschild
    Are you allowing yourself to express your creativity? When you were growing up, were your creative expressions discouraged? Would you like to express that part of you and experience more of the excitement of life?
  • Shaping Your Team  By : Karen Kay
    Whether you are a team of one or hundreds of thousands, your team has a certain shape all its own. Do you have control over how it grows? The answer is yes. However, the key to a successful team lies not in the control, but in the willingness to let the team take on its own shape without your strict direction.
  • Hedonism And The Meaning of Life  By : Jeff Popick
    If you've been searching for the meaning of life and haven't come up with anything that makes sense, check out this short article by Jeff Popick. Jeff offers clarity and new understanding to the meaning of life, and you may find this to be the best self-help tool you can ever have - yet ironically has nothing to do with the self.
  • 14 Inspirational Quotes to Celebrate Anti-Boredom Month  By : Noel Jameson
    Who doesn't love a few good inspirational quotes? They can lift our spirits, keep us motivated, ward of the blues and even change our entire outlook on life. These 14 inspirational quotes are a wonderful way to do all of the above, not to mention the fact they're perfect for celebrating Anti-Boredom month.
  • The Truth About Failure  By : Ada Porat
    Every experience we term ‘failure’ holds a core of liberating truth within. It is part of the learning process of life, giving you the opportunity to define what works for you by experiencing what does not. By moving beyond the label of failure, we can embrace the gifts that these learning experiences bring. Moving beyond the label of failure calls for forgiveness, compassion and an attitude of gratitude.
  • Exercising Our Brains 101: Why and How  By : Alvaro Fernandez
    Major media publications (Time Magazine, CBS, USA Today...) have started to explain the research behind brain exercise to improve memory and attention and help delay potential problems such as Alzheimer's Disease. We have prepared answers to the 7 Most Frequently Asked Questions, which will provide you with great tips to create your own brain exercise program.
  • 7 Tips And Exercises To Boost Your Creativity: Follow A Few Steps & Strategies To Solve Any Problem  By : Lucretia Torva
    So, you have a problem or projects that has you stumped? Or you are not quite satisfied with some of your solutions? Try these ideas:

    1.Gather Information: you might not have enough information about your project/problem to come up with a great creative solution. Exercise: Go to a source of information you don’t typically use. When is the last time you went to a library? Is there a government agency that has related information? How about a local community college, is ther...
  • Ask And It Is Given - Does The Law Of Attraction Really Work?  By : Lucretia Torva
    By now the movie “The Secret” has been out for over a year. It's even been discussed on Oprah. Many people are ready to change their lives by using the Law of Attraction. OK, so now what? How come we can think of all the stuff we want and it doesn't show up? Where's my Genie!?!?

    I believe the root cause of the appearance of failure is the difference between “Wishful thinking” and “Knowing”.

    Have you ever wished you had a new car yet knew it would not appear? Sure...when...
  • Convince Conscious Mind For Subconscious To Work  By : Enoch Tan
    Your conscious mind is the part of your mind that deals with reason and logic. It is the director of your subconscious mind, which is the part of your mind that deals with energy and creation. Your conscious mind is the logical mind that functions with logic. You think with the conscious mind and it is the programmer of the subconscious mind, which is the creative mind that carries out the program.
  • How a Positive Attitude Affects Your Self Confidence and the World Around You  By : Lena Tucker
    How your attitude affects not only the people around you but the world as well.
  • Discover the One Thing that Holds Most People Back from Success  By :
    If you really want to achieve the success you are capable of in your business, it's important to be specific about your desired outcome. This applies whether you are setting the objectives for a marketing campaign or deciding what car you want to drive next year. Here are some ips to achieve that focus.
  • Where is Your Energy Going?  By : Marilyn Schwader
    Each of us has the same 24 hours each day. How do you focus yourself during your 24 hours? Three steps can help you to focus your energy.
  • Are The Grapes Hanging Too High?  By : Ingrid Nirupama Grzeskowiak
    Have you ever questioned yourself or worried if you were a person that was about to accomplish something really big? Are you having doubts about your abilities on a regular basis? Are you comparing yourself a lot to people you admire? Thoughts like that are a sure sign that you are playing small!

    Thoughts like that have the tendency to diminish your own inner power. The way you think about yourself is reflected in your everyday life. All depends on your attitude. Each one ...
  • Timeless Marketing Truth: What Is Advertising, Anyway?  By : Robert Greenshields
    Your first clue to the truth about advertising was written more than 100 years ago.

    Let me tell you the story of a young, confident copywriter by the name of John E. Kennedy. Early one May evening in 1904, Kennedy, a former Canadian Mountie, sat in a New York barroom.

    He sent a note upstairs to the office of A.L. Thomas, the head of the Lord and Thomas advertising agency. "I'm in the saloon downstairs,” the note began, “and I can tell you
    what advertising is. I know y...
  • Timeless Marketing Truth: The Unchanging Truth About Selling Fickle People.  By : Robert Greenshields
    What we want changes overnight; what makes us want it hasn’t changed in thousands of years, nor will it change in thousands more. The serious student of marketing can learn much from early analysts of motivation. Here is a bit of George French’s "The Art and Science of Advertising” from the turn of the 20th century…

    “We know how to appeal to Smith because we know Smith.  We know what will please Brown because we know Brown.  We know how to get our way with Jones because we...
  • Overcoming Negative Habits and Programming-Remember WYTIWYG!  By : Susan L Reid
    Go to any bookstore in the United States and you’ll find rows and rows of self-help books dedicated to overcoming negative habits and programming. It’s staggering and a bit overwhelming to know which book will actually do the trick, fix the problem, or solve the issue. Yikes! Are we really that bad off? No, we are not. Next time you feel the urge to change yourself; don’t run to the nearest bookstore. Save your money! Just remember WYTIWYG.
  • My Communication Is The Response I Get  By : Niurka
    Have you ever felt you communicated clearly with someone, but that person didn’t understand what you said? Did you blame them for not listening properly, or for misinterpreting your words? Or did you take responsibility for the response your communication elicited? Were you centered with your truth while being flexible in your approach?

    Communication is like a dance, where we lead and follow, give and receive, speak and listen, create and accept. Through this dance we can ...
  • The Power of Attraction from the Amazon: The Pusanga  By : Howard G Charing
    The Western rational mind can only struggle, to take as an example the famed ‘love potion’ of the Amazon known as the Pusanga. In rational terms it makes no sense whatsoever, how can a concoction of leaves, roots, and seeds attract a lover, or good luck to you?
  • Team Building Events  By : Mandy Chagger
    Organizing an event can often seem like a complicated process for the uninitiated. With so many options available, it’s important to stay on top of your requirements to avoid being overwhelmed. Your first assignment would be to list out, in order of priority, all the aspects of the event that need to be covered.
  • Who Is Really To Blame?  By : Michael A. Verdicchio
    There are people today who have become experts at blaming everyone and everything for their problems. They have mastered “The Blame Method.” Life is not determined by luck or fate. Life is all about choices. It all starts with the thoughts that we choose to think about.
  • Dealing With Criticism And Difference In Opinion  By : Robert Najemy
    Why this is important

    We often become emotionally disturbed during a disagreement, or an argument, or when someone criticizes us or disagrees with us. In such cases our personality usually feels hurt, demeaned and in danger.

    When we feel this way, we destroy our own happiness, clarity and health and often behave in ways which we later regret.

    A simple technique for gaining clarity is to:

    1. Remember that concerning criticism, there are two possibilities:

    a. The...
  • Alternatives to the downward spiral  By : Mike Scantlebury
    How come 'bad luck comes in threes'? Because good luck comes in 3s too, and 5s, and 7s. Things are linked. One item often piles on top of another. If it's bad news, then there's more to come, and soon you're on the downward spiral. But - something that most people don't stop to think about is that good news never travels alone either. One good thing can lead to another. There's an upward spiral as well as a down facing one!
  • The Biggest Mistakes Society Makes  By : Helene Rothschild
    Are you frustrated with the events happening in your neighborhood, city, state, country, and/or the world? Have you wondered why history keeps repeating itself? Would you like some insights as to the causes of the problems and the solutions?
  • Be a Person of High Integrity  By : Stan the Mann
    To be a person of high integrity go the extra mile, do more than you have promised. If you an appointment, you are early for your appointment. You respect the other person's time, you do not come late. That communicates your time is more important than theirs.
  • Life On Track? Big Checklist to Help You Find Out!  By : Cari Vollmer
    The more things you can "check off" the more you are leading your life. Is there such a thing as having 100% of the items checked? No. Life is dynamic. It's not meant to be "perfect" all the time. Run through this checklist and note what's working and what's not. If you need help boosting your "take life by the reins" powers let me know! Read on...
  • False Beliefs About Illness  By : Kate Loving Shenk
    We've Been Taught To Resist Illness, But What We Resist, Persists.
  • Puppy Power  By : Gary Crow
    I'm sitting here watching our puppy bark at his reflection in the window in the door to the back yard. His goal is to get outside but he has a problem. There is a guard dog on the other side of the window, staying right with him, bark for bark, preventing his exit. He first runs up to the other dog, tries to get past him, then backs away to analyze and evaluate. This article has the rest of the story.

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