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  • !0 Simple Techniques To Initiate Stress And Anxiety Relief At Work  By :
    Ricky Gervais and the BBC's stunningly successful sit-com "The Office" has been a huge hit around the world spawning countless spin off's and remakes.

    The fact is that the comic situation transfers across cultural barriers. The exact idioms of the language may alter but essentially we see people in the show that we relate to in our own workplace - sometimes we even see ourselves.

    The people are not the only aspect of the show tat transfers, so do the situations the char...
  • "A Piece of Blarney Stone" 10 ways to empower your communication  By : Tim Maher
    This article sets out to give some well meaning advice on how to speak in public and how to hold a decent conversation with other people. There are techniques such as listening, being humble, making eye contact, using humour, knowing that you are no better than other people and have to learn new things, having a cheery disposition, using role models as a point of reference for your own performance and being prepared with notes if necessary.
  • "Bump In The Road" Theory: Do You Give Up Too Easily? Six Steps To Take  By :
    It seems there are two main types of coaching clients: Those who are defeated by nothing and those who give up at the first "bump in the road". The operative word is "bump", not "hill", not "mountain", not "mountain range" but "bump”.

    What does this mean? This refers to the type of person who chooses a goal and plans a way to accomplish it, but gives up at the first minor setback, disappointment or adversity. Perhaps the goal is to get physically fit and they decide to wal...
  • "Enlightenment" Your 7 days program to Positive thinking  By : Tim Maher
    This article seeks to give pointers to living a more positive life. Having goals and thinking big is a must for a positive lifestyle. There must be action for goals to succeed. One must operate out of love rather than fear and see obstacles as opportunities for growth. Learn also to be grateful for what you have rather than what you haven't got. Have a sense of humour and realise that you are the author of your own destiny.
  • "How to Develop a Positive Attitude"  By : Bryce Roadley
    We live in negative world so to develop a positive attitude will help us in our life every day.
  • "Knowing" Prosperity  By :
    One of the more challenging aspects of learning how to attract prosperity is the ability to "know" you're prosperous - even when you don't yet feel like you are!

    When your outer circumstances keep reflecting the illusion of lack, it's easy to get frustrated because you think your attraction attempts aren't working. However, that very frustration is what will keep you locked into the cycle of lack!

    In order to break out of the illusion of lack, you have to use the power ...
  • "Life With Woody" 10 inspirational quotes that can improve yourself  By : Tim Maher
    This article is about humour as seen through the eyes of Woody Allen. This comic actor has had some quotable quotes attributed to him over the years. His rather sanguine approach to life could offer solutions to the rest of us as we chew on the meaty problems of living. His rather zany quotes have a way of bursting our bubbles and giving us the opportunity to have a good laugh at ourselves and predicaments we sometimes find ourselves in.
  • "Now-ness". The Zen State Of Mind  By :
    "Now-ness" is the state of ideal attention. That is, it is a state of being where all that exists is the present moment, without any thought of past or future. It is paying total attention to what you are doing in the moment that you are doing it. If you are eating for example, just eat. If you are reading, just read. If you are eating and you are thinking about your bills, or what is on television tonight, then you are not in a state of now-ness. If you are reading and you a...
  • "Relaxing with a Mental PDA" Your 5 minutes daily program to Stress management  By : Tim Maher
    This article is about stress management and some methods to use to reduce it and keep it under control. Managing one's time is an important one as one can be led down sidealleys of time waste if one is not careful. It is also important to maintain a balanced lifestyle of work, relaxation, and sleep with good nutrition and exercise. Social support of friends and family is essential. When negative thoughts occur it is better to think positive.
  • "Visualization To Manifest..."  By : Shelley Marie
    Creative visualization is the use of ones imagination to create a mental picture of what it is you wish to manifest, thus influencing reality. Creating an idea or mental picture in your brain of exactly what it is you really want is to define the ability to imagine.

    Repetition on a regular basis with strong emotions and intent gives the idea or mental picture you are trying to create positive energy until it becomes real.

    Science is starting to reflect the ideas of meta...
  • "What Really Makes You Tick?" 10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself: A Preparation To Self-Improvement  By :
    Self-improvement: improvement of one's condition through one's own efforts.

    I often see myself as somewhat contented with my life the way things are, but of course it's hard to think of anything else when there are real issues to be discussed.

    Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.

    So we're all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn't even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within ...
  • "Who's the Boss?" 10 ways to start taking control (time management, goal setting, record tracking)  By : Tim Maher
    This article is a guide to help you take control of your time and be more productive. We should look around us and appreciate the good things in our lives and seek to find the positive outcome rather than the negative. Good social interaction with a human touch will always produce a more rounded person who integrates better with other people. We shouldn't dwell too much on negative thought patterns and we need to recognize our imperfections.
  • An Ultimate Lifestyle Secret - The Power Of Accountability  By :
    Accountability means being held to account, scrutinized, and being required to give an account or explanation of your actions and decisions.

    Somewhere in the last half century or so, society as a whole seemed to forget that there was such a thing as personal responsibility or personal accountability. Whether accountability and responsibility disappeared in the rush to claim the almighty dollar as the most important thing in life or whether they disappeared along with moral...
  • 'Have you got a minute?'- Interruptions, the Bane of Our Life  By : Robyn Pearce
    As I talk to business people in all industries and at all levels it seems that interruptions are the single biggest issue. We've come out of the dark ages where managers never communicated anything to their underlings, through the development of open communication and empowerment, to the point where many people feel they have to 'be available' all day.
  • 10 Barriers To Clear Perception And Smart Choices (Which EQ Can Remedy)  By :
    "Everything is self-evident," said Rene Descartes, mathematician and philosopher. Everything is self-evident if you have high emotional intelligence and are good at reality-testing. If you're clouded with emotions, stuck in the past, inflexible, inauthentic, or inept at verbal and nonverbal communication, alas, everything is not self-evident.

    When you develop your emotional intelligence, and the ability to understand and manage your emotions and those of others, you see th...
  • 10 Great Benefits of Halloween  By : Helene Rothschild
    How do you feel about the Halloween? Are you getting into the action of dressing up or helping your children find a costume? Or are you just looking forward to November 1st?
  • 10 Signs That Your Neurotransmitters Are Out of Balance  By : Mary Ann Copson
    Your behaviors and experience affect your biochemical profile and your biochemical profile affects your behaviors and yexperience. By picking up the yellow flags that tell you when your brain chemistry is out of balance you can take specific steps to put your self back "at choice" and in charge again.
  • 10 Things You Want Your Reputation To Say About You  By : Mary Foley
    When it comes to building your business or your career in a company, how people perceive you is often to the difference between more sales, promotions, and certainly your satisfaction. Here are ten things you want your reputation to say about you.
  • 10 Ways Music Can Help You During The Holidays  By :
    This might be a time of year where you’re looking for, oh, some different ways to soothe, level, motivate, energize yourself and otherwise get on top of your cascading emotions. The EQ Foundation Course© emphasizes the great arts as an adjunct to Emotional Intelligence, though the not-so-great are helpful too. May we suggest?

    1. Need to get solidly centered

    Like, as the metaphysicians say, when you vision yourself growing a tail and having it grow like an anchor down t...
  • 10 Ways To Find Happiness In Retirement  By : Cynthia Barnett
    Retirement is not the end but is merely the beginning of a new life, a new you. As such, it is nothing that should be dreaded or something that should cause you unnecessary stress. Instead it should make you happy and can bring you a new sense of pleasure, if only you let it. In this article, we’ll discuss ten ways that you can find happiness in retirement.

    1. Be open and receptive – Change your attitude and you’ll change your life. Retirement is simply a new phase of you...
  • 10 Ways to Improve Your Listening Skills  By :
    If you are lacking in the listening skills department, though, there are some things that you can start doing today to become a better listener. These ten tips will help you become a better listener and a better communicator.
  • 10 Ways To Kick The Procrastination Habit  By : Julie Plenty
    A survey (by the University of Chicago) suggested that those who relish challenge are more likely to live up to 10 years longer than those who spend their lives inhibited by timidity.

    Trying to realize our ambitions, even if we don't always meet them, is preferable to not having the courage or motivation to take the risk. So not making any resolutions because we fear that we'll break them is having a defeatist attitude, as we allow procrastination to become an insidious ha...
  • 12 Ways To Maximize Time And Life  By : Jim Estill
    My business experience has taught me one true thing: That maximizing your productivity, happiness, peace, or impact can best be accomplished if you clearly understand the 12 Rules of Time.
  • 14 Helen Keller Quotes To Celebrate Her Birthday  By : Noel Jameson
    If anyone's words can properly sum up courage, strength, knowledge and a certain sense of spiritual wisdom, Helen Keller quotes can. A truly remarkable woman, Helen Keller left footprints in this world that even the greatest of men would have a hard time following. Let us remember her on her birthday with these 14 inspirational quotes that belonged to her.
  • 14 Inspirational Quotes to Celebrate Anti-Boredom Month  By : Noel Jameson
    Who doesn't love a few good inspirational quotes? They can lift our spirits, keep us motivated, ward of the blues and even change our entire outlook on life. These 14 inspirational quotes are a wonderful way to do all of the above, not to mention the fact they're perfect for celebrating Anti-Boredom month.
  • 14 J. Paul Getty Quotes to Celebrate The Birth of an American Success Story  By : Noel Jameson
    J. Paul Getty was one of the biggest American success stories in history and this month we celebrate the day of his birth. If you'd like a glimpse inside the mind of this American great, here are 14 J. Paul Getty quotes to get you started.
  • 15 Things You Should Avoid If You Really Want To Have A Good And Better Life  By : wisdomisgreat
    A true great achievements in life is continuing polishing our characters, attitudes, and habits into a better and productive person! That's the only key that I have learned in my life and from personal readings from the profiles and writings of the great wise men of this planet earth. Just Build A Better You! Don't let your life die like an insects without doing something great to yourself and fellow men!
  • 17 "Must Ask" Questions for Planning Successful Projects  By : Adele Sommers
    Why do some projects proceed without a hitch, yet others flounder? One reason could be the type and quality of the questions people ask at the very start. This article suggests 17 insightful queries that can expose the uncertain aspects of your project, and thereby help you avoid expensive surprises later. You can thus achieve your project goals with much less guesswork and far fewer problems than you may have experienced in the past.
  • 17 reasons why you should always carry a book with you  By : Kirsty Dunphey
    17 reasons why you should always carry a book with you
  • 18 Inspirational Quotes to Celebrate Women's History Month  By : Noel Jameson
    Here are 18 of my favorite inspirational quotes, mainly by women, in celebration of Women's History Month.
  • 18 Malcolm Forbes Quotes To Celebrate His August 19th Birthday  By : Noel Jameson
    Malcolm Forbes was one of the most successful businessmen in history and when it comes to success quotes, the words of this success story are always a treasure. Let these 18 Malcolm Forbes quotes remind us of what it takes to truly succeed.
  • 18 Mother Teresa Quotes To Celebrate The Life of an Extraordinary Woman  By : Noel Jameson
    Of all the quotes I've ever read, Mother Teresa quotes have been some of the most enlightening. How could it be that one woman could possess so much wisdom? Let these 18 Mother Teresa quotes remind us of how one person can make such a huge difference in the lives of so many.
  • 20 Tips For A Great Night's Sleep  By : Jane Thurnell-Read
    Getting a good night's sleep helps us to be happier, more productive people, so here's some tips to help you get a good night's sleep:

    1. Avoid drinking tea or coffee late at night

    2. Stop smoking – nicotine is a stimulant and so can make it difficult to get to sleep and stay asleep

    3. Go to bed at the same time each night so that you set a routine

    4. Only use the bed for sleeping and sex

    5. Use dimmers on your light switches, and dim the lights in the hours ...
  • 20 ways to Increase Your Confidence Today!  By : Sherri Frost
    20 quick and practical methods to increase your confidence.
  • 24 Guidelines for Successful Business Relationships  By : Helene Rothschild
    Are you feeling frustrated with your business clients? Are you a client who is dissatisfied with the services you are receiving? Do you find yourself stressed, and complaining about your business transactions? When all people concerned follow some basic guidelines, everyone can win.
  • 3 Actions You Can Take Right Now to Bring Your Dream to Light  By : Cari Vollmer
    You hear it all the time; “follow your dream”, “discover your dream”, “dreams do come true”. This article shows you how to go about bringing your dreams to light.
  • 3 Empowering Tips for Surviving Feedback -- the Good and the Bad  By : Cari Vollmer
    Committed to changing your life? Congratulations! The tips in this article will help you navigate your way through the abundance of opinions you’re sure to face on your way to creating a life you love.
  • 3 Keys to Living Well  By : Cari Vollmer
    In your mind, what does Living Well mean to you? As they say, if you can dream it you can achieve it. However, a vivid imagination in and of itself does not lead to getting what you want. You also have to take supportive, concrete actions.
  • 3 Law of Attraction Tactics  By : Stephen Pierce
    This article discusses three easy ways to make use of the Law of Attraction.
  • 3 Methods for Clearing Mental Clutter  By : Jennifer Koretsky
    Many adults with ADD have a hard time slowing down their brains. Thoughts often come at whirlwind speed, and it can be hard to concentrate on the tasks at hand when so many other thoughts are floating around in the brain. I call this "mental clutter."
  • 3 Reasons to Stop Being a People Pleaser  By : Sharron Phillips
    I was mostly nice, except for times when I exploded emotion in an attempt to deal with conflict. I did not speak my mind even though I knew what I thought. What I didn't know so well was what I felt, what my needs were and how to express them.
  • 3 Simple Strategies For Never Losing Out Again  By : Steve Errey
    Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in too. When things go wrong or don’t go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves it can be tough to deal with. After all, we all want things to go well and to end up as ‘winners’. But life will always throw challenges at us, and we can’t control everything. Nor should we try. It’s not what happens to you but what you do with what happens to you that makes the differ...
  • 3 Steps to Completely Eliminating Problems from Your Life  By : Tony Mase
    Do you have problems in your life? Business problems, financial problems, health problems, relationship problems, or any other kind of problems? If you do, you're about to discover my simple three-step formula for completely eliminating them from your life.
  • 3 Tips to Stop Stressing and Start Living  By : Sandy Reed
    Are you enjoying all of life, or just a miniscule portion? Here are 3 tips to help you hang on to the good parts a little longer.
  • 30 Guidelines for Solving Problems  By : Helene Rothschild
    It is normal and human to have problems. If our hands get dirty we know how to wash them. Similarly, when we have problems we need to know how to clean them up. Relationships with loved ones, friends, children, bosses, etc. suffer when problems are not resolved in constructive ways. The following 30 guidelines can assist you to resolve problems and enjoy healthy, happy relationships.
  • 30 Ways to Resolve Upsets  By : Helene Rothschild
    Do you ever get upset? Welcome to the human race! It is very helpful to have some course of action so that you can overcome that negative feeling and feel good again. Unresolved upsets hurt you and the others involved. As a Marriage, Family Therapist, I discovered some very effective ways to assist my clients. The following 30 guidelines for your personal and professional relationships can help you too.
  • 4 Keys to Moving Smoothly Through Change  By : Karin Syren
    The only constant in change is that it is always with us. The changes I am observing lately seem to be increasing in intensity! Join me and learn 4 simple keys to handling arguably the most unsettling kind of change we experience.
  • 4 Quick Steps For Completing To Do Lists  By : wendy hearn
    If you are having difficulty completing the tasks that you set out to do when you create a to do list, these tips will help you.
  • 4 Steps To Overcoming Self-sabotaging Behaviors  By : Joseph Plazo
    Self-sabotaging behaviors prevent you from conditioning yourself for success. And changing those long, established behavior patterns like self-sabotage is as difficult as recognizing and understanding them.

    How, then, can you eliminate sabotaging beliefs and emotions? First, understand and accept yourself before attempting to understand and accept others. You have to take a journey within for personal evaluation. This means looking inside yourself and listening to your in...
  • 4 Ways to Chill Out  By : Chester Ku-Lea
    There is no doubt about it –life is busy. And while we often try to leave everyday stresses behind, whether they come from work or personal affairs, it isn’t always easy. There are answers though, and with a little practice and daily diligence you can effectively reduce the amount of stress you carry with you throughout the day, helping you cope with whatever you might encounter.

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