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Jaco de Villiers's Articles in Empowerment

  • Giving meaning to experiences
    An experience is nothing more than an experience. By giving an experience meaning, you give it a frame. A frame will change the picture. Put a flowery frame around your picture. You have the power to change how you see experiences.
  • Saying something that matters
    Automatic vigilance is defined as the strong tendency to pay attention to undesirable or negative information. Apparently we are more inclined to notice the negative than positive. If I describe a friend of mine to you, by naming 20 favourable traits, and one negative one, you are bound to remember the negative one.