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Tyler Benson's Articles in Motivation

  • Learn How to Win
    Facing different problems people often make the same mistake bringing them into negative emotional trap: they fix on the problem instead of considering how to achieve the desirable result. In this aspect all the people can be divided into two categories:” winners” and “losers”. The first succeed quite often and overcome their ups and downs without sticking on them. The latter tend to experience difficulties more often, run of bad luck lasts for a rather long time. In fact the two groups intuitively use different life strategies towards negative life circumstances. “Losers “perceive them as defeats, whereas “winners” take them as some valuable life experience to draw useful conclusions. The main rule of “winners “is the thesis: “there are no defeats, but there is a feedback”. Such life approach allows them to acquire severe life lessons more easily and advance to their aim.
  • People Who are Lucky
    No one will say that it is easy to survive, even if things are going fine. People are under a strain all the time even knowing the fact that they are the creators of it. We become vulnerable when we are to make serious decisions, though we created coziness around to be protected from that deadly influence of the society. After hopeless try to pull yourself out of the state of depression you sink into your armchair crying about how hard it is for you to handle everything and how cruel people are towards you. It is hard to solve problems on your own, but there is always someone to hold your hand when facing difficulty.
  • Power Inside Everyone
    When we speak of strong will, we imagine a well-built man that saves the world form corruption, calamity and gives hope for a better future. At the same time we realize that this is an imaginary character to lift your mood up in the evening when you watch a movie. In real life we are not supermen and certainly do not behave ourselves like ones. We ignore common sense and follow the tiniest of our desires that may put to danger a lot of valuable things. We are not winners or conquerors; we are losers that prefer to sit quietly and from time to time to have a burst of action for which we will be responsible for the rest of our days. It is better to parasite on other ignoring the fact that your life is your responsibility. People feel safe when their faults are covered by others that have sympathy for you. The only action guided by your common sense is devolution of the burden you are supposed to carry on someone else’s shoulders.